The spiritual christian will readily admit there is much wrong in his discipleship,
and that he comes miserably short in his service to God and his brothers
and sisters in the church. Being aware of these unsavory facts should serve
to make us reluctant to severely criticize those who are walking with us
in the troubled path of faith. The least scrutiny of our brothers and sisters
will reveal much which we consider to run counter to the honor of God,
and the best interest of the church. On the other hand, the scrutiny being
honest, we will discover much in our dear brothers and sisters that is
honest, and worthy of compliment. We are not saying, withhold all criticism.
No, loving and constructive criticism can be the means of enriching love,
correcting error, and contribute to the welfare of the church. Destructive
criticism of a brother or sister is grievously wrong, and severe criticism
must come only after the effect has been wisely and prayerfully calculated.
The flesh takes a certain satisfaction from "Telling him off", but it often
follows that we look back on our time of temper venting, and conclude,
I wish I hadn't said that; or, I could have handled that in a far better
way. More good has been accomplished by a pat on the back, than by a finger
in the face. We may not relish humble pie, but the inner man thrives on
it, and to deny our self this spiritual delicacy is to lower the flammability
point of the depraved, harsh and unkind passions. The devil hates church
harmony, peace, and unity. He loves to see discord among the brethren,
gossip, and negative attitudes. Yet, the devil cannot create in the church
these ill conditions apart from help within the church. Christ said, "it
is impossible but that offenses will come: but woe unto him, through whom
they come" (Luke 17:1). The devil is the arch rival of God,
infinitely hates the blood bought church of Jesus Christ, and is determined
to undo every member of the church. So, it behooves the members to promote
one another, to pray fervently for one another, and to pay respect to one
another. A kind word of appreciation can go a long way in disarming the
spirit that is caught in the gall of bitterness. After all, it is the meek
who inherit the earth, and our Lord said, "I am meek and lowly in heart."
Let us give the church our best, and God will give the best to us.